Tuesday, July 31, 2007


Dear Dr. Frisch,

Am I asking you to apologize to me? No. An apology extracted on demand is worth very little and an apology given grudgingly is worth nothing at all.

There are many people to whom you owe an apology, but until you feel remorse for the way you have talked about others there is no point of asking.

As a parent who has lost a child and who has others living, I know what it is like to bring a child into the world. From the moment one knows of an impending birth, a parent begins to create a life for that child. A good parent allows the child to develop in his/her own way and adjusts that dream to the child.

Therefore, I am asking you not to apologize to me, but instead, to your own parents. These good people brought you into this world, nurtured you and supported you to adulthood. They have adjusted their dreams as you have grown. I am sure that these two good people were so proud of you as you demonstrated your achievement in school and college. Like most parents, they supported you through your journey from adolescence to adulthood. They were proud beyond belief when you received your PhD from the University of Pennsylvania. They were proud when you worked for the National Science Foundation. They were proud when you became an adjunct professor at the University of Oregon.

What you have done to yourself in the last year has been nothing less than horrible, to not only yourself and your career but also to the dreams of those two good people. You owe them better. You owe them your sincere apology.


Monday, July 30, 2007

John the Baptist

To Dr. Deborah Frisch,

Thank you for welcoming me to the Gerbil Nation, though I must say it's odd to say I just "joined," as I have been reading DHD and the Wheel since last July, and I wasn't aware one "joined" a public, non-passworded website. I also wasn't aware that you held the Nation in such regard, but I'm happy to see you take pleasure in seeing it grow. I am also not sure why you choose to highlight me in this way, but don't mind in the least - in fact, when you linked to my "Schedule" page instead of the main one, I noticed I had not updated it in quite some time, thank you!

Now, this site was set up to ask you to apologize for some very bad things you have said and done to others. Since you have only welcomed me in writing, and not done some of the things to me you have done to others, I do not think an apology to me is indicated. However, I do appreciate Sinner giving me the chance to address something far more important that I do feel you need to apologize for, turning your back to and cursing in the most vile ways the one who loves you more than you could ever know or understand, God.

I can only imagine what your real life must be like, but He knows what pain you are in and what pains you have gone through. He knows what you are doing, what you have done, what you will do tomorrow, He knows all the curses you have sent His way and all the many ways you have sinned, yet He still loves you. He also knows what demons are running through you, and knows that somewhere, deep inside, you would give anything to be rid of them and be able to live a quiet, productive life, surrounded by friends and those who love you, not for what you can do for them or give them, but for who you have become.

You can have this life, all you need do is apologize to God. Tell Him you are sorry for what you have done, you don't need to elaborate, He already knows it all. Tell Him you want to be rid of these demons, that you want a new life, a new beginning, a second chance. He is the God of second chances and lost cases, and will listen to you. Tell Him you want the peace He can give you, and that you are willing to give him your pain, your suffering, and all the things that have led you to this point in exchange for it. He will think that is a great exchange, and will do so immediately.

His own words confirm this:

John 3:16 ¶ “For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have eternal life.
John 3:17 “For God did not send the Son into the world to judge the world, but that the world might be saved through Him.

Here is another website that lays out what is called the "Roman Road" to salvation: http://contenderministries.org/romanroad.php

If you need more information or help to find and know God, and don't know someone local to turn to, just email me.

In the beautiful name of Jesus Christ, may you find joy and peace in this world.

John the Baptist

Saturday, July 21, 2007


The following came to me by a source that does not wish to have their name reveled:

I want her to apologize to the receptionists who have taken her calls at places of business and been on the receiving end of her unpleasant rants. She has accused people of crimes, sexual deviancy and all manner of nastiness to third parties who have no part in her internet crimes.

Here is just a short list of companies she has reportedly to have harassed:
  • Various Colorado and Oregon law firms
  • Vermont Teddy Bear Co.
  • Zurich Insurance

Friday, July 20, 2007

Dan Collins


I hope this missive finds you better. I am sorry for what you have lost. I am sorry that your dog died, that your pseudo-husband abandoned you, that you lost your job, that you've been mocked in print and on the web. I am sorry that you are lonely, sorry that you are focused on your wounds, sorry that you seem not to be making much progress.

The world is not unlike a computer in a sense: you send information into it, and it spits responses back at you. One would think, given the responses that you've received, that you would learn, but apparently that is not the case. You need to move on, for your own sake.

Revisiting things on the web is about the least helpful thing that you can do now, for yourself. Hurting others, in a sort of under-motivated Frankenstein's monster way--only hurts you more. The rest of us have gotten on with our lives. Why can't you?

Psychically, I think you would incur a world of good by apologizing to those whom you've attacked. I don't think you will, but there you have it. Your attempts to injure my family, whilst bootless, have not gone unremarked by me. But if you examine what's actually been said and done, I think you'll find it almost as curious as I have that you're for some reason worried about me.

If you'd like to apologize to me, I wait at receipt of toll like some kind of amoeba, or paramecium, pumping water but not really expecting anything at all, as my organelles dilate and contract, alternately.

Best wishes,
Dan Collins

Wednesday, July 18, 2007


Welcome to DebApologies.

This site has been set up to allow Dr. Deborah Frisch the opportunity to apologize to the many people she has wronged on the internet.

My name is "Sinner" and I run Teh Squeaky Wheel along with a host of very smart, funny and talented "gerbils". We are a group that came into being from the Don't Hire Deb site that was established to insure that Dr. Frisch not be allowed near youth again given her behavior.

We have always said that if Dr. Deborah Frisch would do a few simple things, including making public and unconditional apologies, that we would stop monitoring her actions. Here is the list again:

1. Settle with Mr. Goldstein
2. Delete all your blogs
3. Make a simple apology to everyone that asks for it
4. Return your DSL modem to QWest
5. Never post anything on the internet again

If you think you deserve an apology from Dr. Deborah Frisch, please email me your request, I will evaluate it and put up a post here. Your request must be emailed and in a "cut and paste" format and I must be able to verify your claim before I post.

Only one rule on this blog: The only person allowed to comment is Dr. Deborah Frisch (aka nonk9). Any comment not from "nonk9" will be deleted, no exceptions.

All others, please go on over to Teh Squeaky Wheel, register and post comments in the current thread. Jump in, the discussions are usually free-form and you will be welcomed with open arms.

I will start out with my request.

Dr. Frisch,

You have libeled me and my family for over a year now. Written pedophile fantasies (see comments to that post) about my daughter, tried to embarrass my wife by using her medical condition and wrote horrible things about my readers.

In addition, you have projected your stalking and threatening behavior on me by claiming that I exist only to "to harass me, inflict emotional distress on me and incite physical violence against me". While making that claim, you have constantly been reminding the world that "Sinner has a four year old daughter. His wife has seizures. He lives in the midwest". I have asked before and I will ask again, "What possible benign reason would you have to post this information?"

So for all of this and more, I ask for your sincere apology.