Adm. Bilgeman

Frisch:

You made it through a year.

Frankly, that's more than I expected of you. It hasn't been fun or easy, has it?

What little you ever managed to accomplish you threw away by a few intemperate remarks and an unrelenting arrogant pride.

The next year isn't going to get any better, or the year after that.

You're still a comparatively young woman, and you can expect at least 3 more decades of the day-to-day drudgery, poverty and loneliness that is the path you have chosen.

Facing such a bleak future, it is a wonder that you bother getting up from wherever it is that you lay down to sleep...logic would dictate that you should end yourself and avoid the further pain that is in store for you.

But here you are still...and yet you would deny that you have Faith.

I was both amused and disgusted by your vulgar performance at the University of Oregon. There was a shot of your face that clearly captured that you weren't REALLY enjoying what you were doing...you looked like a trapped animal, honestly.

I found it significant that it was the sound of Scripture being quoted that caused you to debase yourself in so obscene a manner as to cause your expulsion from polite society.

The demons that possess you very clearly responded to Divine wisdom by publicly demonstrating their power over you, did they not?

We no longer need your example, Frisch. The world has moved on beyond the near-insignificance of your public flameout...there are new villains to identify and excoriate.

If you are remembered at all, it will be with disgust and amusement...and you will no longer be of use to that which has infected you.

When it's done, and has discarded you,(as it might), I have told you where you may begin the road back. It is there that you may receive guidance in the matters of apologies and forgiveness and such.

You may go and continue rubbing yourself on posts, poles and fences in the meantime.

No punishment or insult I could impose or inflict would hurt more than leading the pathetic existence that you have fashioned.

Jerrie.Atrick

Dear Dr. Frisch,

Am I asking you to apologize to me? No. An apology extracted on demand is worth very little and an apology given grudgingly is worth nothing at all.

There are many people to whom you owe an apology, but until you feel remorse for the way you have talked about others there is no point of asking.

As a parent who has lost a child and who has others living, I know what it is like to bring a child into the world. From the moment one knows of an impending birth, a parent begins to create a life for that child. A good parent allows the child to develop in his/her own way and adjusts that dream to the child.

Therefore, I am asking you not to apologize to me, but instead, to your own parents. These good people brought you into this world, nurtured you and supported you to adulthood. They have adjusted their dreams as you have grown. I am sure that these two good people were so proud of you as you demonstrated your achievement in school and college. Like most parents, they supported you through your journey from adolescence to adulthood. They were proud beyond belief when you received your PhD from the University of Pennsylvania. They were proud when you worked for the National Science Foundation. They were proud when you became an adjunct professor at the University of Oregon.

What you have done to yourself in the last year has been nothing less than horrible, to not only yourself and your career but also to the dreams of those two good people. You owe them better. You owe them your sincere apology.

Jerrie.Atrick

Receptionists

The following came to me by a source that does not wish to have their name reveled:

I want her to apologize to the receptionists who have taken her calls at places of business and been on the receiving end of her unpleasant rants. She has accused people of crimes, sexual deviancy and all manner of nastiness to third parties who have no part in her internet crimes.


Here is just a short list of companies she has reportedly to have harassed:

• Various Colorado and Oregon law firms
• Vermont Teddy Bear Co.
• Zurich Insurance

Dan Collins

Deb--

I hope this missive finds you better. I am sorry for what you have lost. I am sorry that your dog died, that your pseudo-husband abandoned you, that you lost your job, that you've been mocked in print and on the web. I am sorry that you are lonely, sorry that you are focused on your wounds, sorry that you seem not to be making much progress.

The world is not unlike a computer in a sense: you send information into it, and it spits responses back at you. One would think, given the responses that you've received, that you would learn, but apparently that is not the case. You need to move on, for your own sake.

Revisiting things on the web is about the least helpful thing that you can do now, for yourself. Hurting others, in a sort of under-motivated Frankenstein's monster way--only hurts you more. The rest of us have gotten on with our lives. Why can't you?

Psychically, I think you would incur a world of good by apologizing to those whom you've attacked. I don't think you will, but there you have it. Your attempts to injure my family, whilst bootless, have not gone unremarked by me. But if you examine what's actually been said and done, I think you'll find it almost as curious as I have that you're for some reason worried about me.

If you'd like to apologize to me, I wait at receipt of toll like some kind of amoeba, or paramecium, pumping water but not really expecting anything at all, as my organelles dilate and contract, alternately.

Best wishes,
Dan Collins

Welcome

Welcome to DebApologies.

This site has been set up to allow Dr. Deborah Frisch the opportunity to apologize to the many people she has wronged on the internet.

My name is "Sinner" and I run Teh Squeaky Wheel along with a host of very smart, funny and talented "gerbils". We are a group that came into being from the Don't Hire Deb site that was established to insure that Dr. Frisch not be allowed near youth again given her behavior.

We have always said that if Dr. Deborah Frisch would do a few simple things, including making public and unconditional apologies, that we would stop monitoring her actions. Here is the list again:

1. Settle with Mr. Goldstein
2. Delete all your blogs
3. Make a simple apology to everyone that asks for it
4. Return your DSL modem to QWest
5. Never post anything on the internet again

If you think you deserve an apology from Dr. Deborah Frisch, please email me your request, I will evaluate it and put up a post here. Your request must be emailed and in a "cut and paste" format and I must be able to verify your claim before I post.

Only one rule on this blog: The only person allowed to comment is Dr. Deborah Frisch (aka nonk9). Any comment not from "nonk9" will be deleted, no exceptions.

All others, please go on over to Teh Squeaky Wheel, register and post comments in the current thread. Jump in, the discussions are usually free-form and you will be welcomed with open arms.



I will start out with my request.

Dr. Frisch,

You have libeled me and my family for over a year now. Written pedophile fantasies (see comments to that post) about my daughter, tried to embarrass my wife by using her medical condition and wrote horrible things about my readers.

In addition, you have projected your stalking and threatening behavior on me by claiming that I exist only to "to harass me, inflict emotional distress on me and incite physical violence against me". While making that claim, you have constantly been reminding the world that "Sinner has a four year old daughter. His wife has seizures. He lives in the midwest". I have asked before and I will ask again, "What possible benign reason would you have to post this information?"

So for all of this and more, I ask for your sincere apology.